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    Quote Originally Posted by kas74 View Post
    His mother's friend is coming to pick up his stuff later this morning;it seems his mother can't get the time off.
    Sounds familiar.
    Give them 1 week to either pick it up or arrange collection at their expense and if it's not done tip the lot. Seriously
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    Quote Originally Posted by aylesbyred View Post
    Give them 1 week to either pick it up or arrange collection at their expense and if it's not done tip the lot. Seriously
    It's all gone except for one bag that we noticed after they left;took almost an hour to squeeze everything into the car.
    They're going to leave it in the car and maybe take it down to his mother's place tomorrow.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kas74 View Post
    It's all gone except for one bag that we noticed after they left;took almost an hour to squeeze everything into the car.
    They're going to leave it in the car and maybe take it down to his mother's place tomorrow.
    Who picked it all up ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by aylesbyred View Post
    Who picked it all up ?
    The mother's friend and her daughter;they live about forty miles away in the village where he grew up.
    So an eighty mile round trip for them today;his mother's lucky they offered to do it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kas74 View Post
    The mother's friend and her daughter;they live about forty miles away in the village where he grew up.
    So an eighty mile round trip for them today;his mother's lucky they offered to do it.
    And your daughter, continuing to be ok or does she miss him ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by aylesbyred View Post
    And your daughter, continuing to be ok or does she miss him ?
    She's fine,it's like he was never here.
    I'm still not sure exactly what it was that made her dump him but she's perfectly okay with being single again.
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    Good news for a change kas let's hope it keeps up on all fronts
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    Quote Originally Posted by ONDEFENCE View Post
    Good news for a change kas let's hope it keeps up on all fronts
    Aye ,fingers crossed.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kas74 View Post
    She's fine,it's like he was never here.
    I'm still not sure exactly what it was that made her dump him but she's perfectly okay with being single again.
    👍👍
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    Quote Originally Posted by kas74 View Post
    Aye ,fingers crossed.
    Ctoss everthing girl I will
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    How's yr weekend Kaz ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by aylesbyred View Post
    How's yr weekend Kaz ?
    Busy,a friend of mine was throwing a party and I got lumbered with providing food for all the people who are allergic to dairy products.

    Nothing to report on the ex-boyfriend front,he's very much out of sight out of mind.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kas74 View Post
    She's fine,it's like he was never here.
    I'm still not sure exactly what it was that made her dump him but she's perfectly okay with being single again.
    That's great mate, nice to hear something positive
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    Quote Originally Posted by brummiered01 View Post
    That's great mate, nice to hear something positive
    I still can't believe he's gone,part of me's convinced he's still upstairs playing Call Of Duty all day.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kas74 View Post
    Busy,a friend of mine was throwing a party and I got lumbered with providing food for all the people who are allergic to dairy products.

    Nothing to report on the ex-boyfriend front,he's very much out of sight out of mind.
    Good, hopefully all moving on at a pace
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    Quote Originally Posted by rhoscoch View Post
    Those who find that being 'away' helps.

    Is it worth keeping in mind that we are not trees...we are not rooted to the spot.

    If you are unhappy where you are...move?
    If only it was that straight forward man, I have someone to look after, I am the only thing between him and a care home, and he really does not want to have to go into one.

    I dont mind looking after him, but it really does get on top of me sometimes, it makes it really hard for me to socialise and meet people, I have not had a relationship for ages, I can cope with it though as long as I get a decent break away every now and then.

    When the time comes and he passes away, I will be out like a shot, The only hard thing about that decision is deciding where to visit and where to eventually settle !!
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    Quote Originally Posted by MrDilkington View Post
    If only it was that straight forward man, I have someone to look after, I am the only thing between him and a care home, and he really does not want to have to go into one.

    I dont mind looking after him, but it really does get on top of me sometimes, it makes it really hard for me to socialise and meet people, I have not had a relationship for ages, I can cope with it though as long as I get a decent break away every now and then.

    When the time comes and he passes away, I will be out like a shot, The only hard thing about that decision is deciding where to visit and where to eventually settle !!
    Sounds like a selfless commitment at present which no doubt could be very difficult to cope with.
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    God Bless all those struggling at the moment and reminder this thread is open to anyone who wants to dump stuff or share their experiences.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rhoscoch View Post
    Should that not be the other way round Kas?
    Not for me,I'm a funny ****** when it comes to stuff like that.
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    Hows it going Kaz, all quiet on the western front as they say ?

    Hows your daughter doing now and Mr Kaz ?

    Hope all well
    dont look back in anger.
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    Quote Originally Posted by aylesbyred View Post
    Hows it going Kaz, all quiet on the western front as they say ?

    Hows your daughter doing now and Mr Kaz ?

    Hope all well
    Yep,all quiet for the time being.
    The daughter's her usual motormouth self and Mr kas is waiting to see a consultant.
    He had an appointment with our GP on Monday and he reckons it won't be too long before he's sorted.

    Everything okay with you?
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    Quote Originally Posted by kas74 View Post
    Yep,all quiet for the time being.
    The daughter's her usual motormouth self and Mr kas is waiting to see a consultant.
    He had an appointment with our GP on Monday and he reckons it won't be too long before he's sorted.

    Everything okay with you?
    good, enjoy the peace while it lasts and hope for good news on Mr Kaz.

    all good, my daughter invited me to her 3D scan yesterday so I saw my grandaughters for the first time

    well the face of one and the back of the head of the other lol
    dont look back in anger.
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    Quote Originally Posted by aylesbyred View Post
    good, enjoy the peace while it lasts and hope for good news on Mr Kaz.

    all good, my daughter invited me to her 3D scan yesterday so I saw my grandaughters for the first time

    well the face of one and the back of the head of the other lol
    Twins...eek.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rhoscoch View Post
    Twins...eek.
    yeah, our house is mad, i have me, mrs ayles, my son, my eldest daughter and her daughter, my middle girl and her fella and twins due and his lad who comes at weekends lol

    however, after christmas it could go from 10 to 3
    dont look back in anger.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rhoscoch View Post
    Sounds like a selfless commitment at present which no doubt could be very difficult to cope with.
    Its not completely selfless, It does make some things easier for me, I don't have a mortgage or have to pay rent, just bills, because of this I can get by on the money from my investments and I do not have to work much anymore, which was a good thing as I always struggled to hold down a job.

    I can stay here in the house as long as I want when he eventually passes away, although I am not too bothered about this, I will be out like a shot.

    As long as I can get away a few times a year I can cope with it, I do get some help from my mother and my brothers as well.

    Currently I am trying to find out what my emigration options are, my favourite perspective countries so far are India, Mexico or Brazil, I quite fancy parts of the US as well but I hear its hard to get in there nowadays, plus this entire Trump thing is putting me off a bit.
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    Excellent article about Chris Kirkland and his own battles with depression...

    https://www.theguardian.com/football...sion-interview

    Hope the denizens of this thread are all doing okay, I've not checked it out recently.

    Take care.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fight Cloob View Post
    Excellent article about Chris Kirkland and his own battles with depression...

    https://www.theguardian.com/football...sion-interview

    Hope the denizens of this thread are all doing okay, I've not checked it out recently.

    Take care.
    Really good read that and identify with a lot of what he said

    Collymore is also a good speaker on the subject, the more the better in this day and age

    Cheers for posting
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